My Hollywood Stunt Career Pause: 15 Months of Adventures Across 35 Countries and a New Future Vision

At the age of 35, two years ago, I embarked on what I term my "bold sabbatical."

My life had become a chaotic cycle of auditions, action sequences, and relentless practice sessions. In the entertainment realm, I had been a stunt performer and actress since turning 30. However, by early 2024, following industry strikes, I hit a standstill.

Work had dwindled significantly, my finances were stretched thin, and I recognized that my high-paced, luxury-infused, yet exhausting lifestyle was no longer viable.

Traveling Has Always Captured My Heart

I grew up in Detroit, the youngest among five siblings, single-handedly raised by my mother. My university years at Miami saw a shift from pre-med to global studies, along with learning Spanish and Portuguese in Brazil.

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Upon graduation, I ventured into prostate cancer research, sensing it wasn't my calling. My journey led from singing and fashion to volunteer efforts in Rio, eventually landing me in LA. An unexpected stint in background acting paved the way to my stunt career.

My significant career break came when I doubled for Miranda Bailey on 'Grey's Anatomy.'

But by January 2024, the scene was hushed. Despite diligently saving, the anxiety of financial obligations lingered.

Realizing the Need for Change

It took a conversation with a dear friend to ignite the truth: "What is it that you truly want?"

I yearned for a global experience, an extensive escape, not just a short retreat. Therefore, I began sketching out a lengthy break — a full year or even more.

Without a concrete scheme, I jotted down a list of 12 desired destinations. Sold off everything from my LA residence, terminated my lease, and rented out my car to manage payments.

My support circle — friends and family — rallied behind me. They helped in packing and purchasing some belongings to support the travel fund. My rule was to cap each flight at $500, a task made easier with most flights being one-way.

India Marks the Beginning

I received numerous cautions regarding traveling solo as a woman in India, yet the welcome was warm from the start.

A brief stint evolved into a pivotal experience when I bonded with two young girls who had faced adversity, making our connection immediate.

From there, the trip's flow was spontaneous. My sister joined during her breaks, accompanying me to 13 countries. Remarkably, my mother, despite her long-held fear of flying, also joined us at points during the journey.

We braved zip-lining in Cape Verde, rode camels in Morocco, and even ventured into waters with sharks in South Africa and crocodiles in Zimbabwe. We paraglided above Rio during its vibrant Carnival and danced tirelessly in a salsa congress held in Paris.

Yet, it was the simple connections—like sharing meals in Vietnam or exploring the souks of Morocco—that held their own special charm, often facilitated by invitations from newfound acquaintances.

Personal Milestones and Mastery

In the tranquil waters of the Philippines, I achieved my divemaster certification, a goal years in the making. In Scotland, a friend's wedding became a reunion with old friends.

Solo travel sharpened my ability to manage challenges—navigating currency exchanges, finding transport, sourcing meals, and forging friendships in diverse cultures.

Despite being an introvert, I learned to cultivate community connections anywhere, with these relationships proving as enriching as the locations themselves.

Travel Altered My Life Outlook

I embraced a slower pace, trusting each moment, and let go of society’s quintessential American dream — no house, car, or picket fence for me. My aspirations pivoted towards autonomy: to go, see, and live on my terms.

Back in the States, I face the perplexities of reverse culture shock. Hollywood's landscape is evolving, dissipating its core; auditions now lack the centrality once known. I’m delving into promising projects in the realms of travel film and documentaries.

Yet my future is clearer than any other time: my intentions lie in living abroad.

Reflecting on my journey, I advise anyone contemplating such a break to keep it simple: don't get bogged down by rigid plans, minimize financial ties, and embrace the unexpected.