I’m 47 and took a leap of faith by leaving my job without a backup plan. I didn’t want to look back with regrets.

I'm 47 and took a leap of faith by leaving my job without a backup plan. I didn't want to look back with regrets.

For a long time, I contemplated leaving my business school teaching position at a small private university but was too afraid to act. The income was satisfactory, my schedule was flexible, and my colleagues were amiable.

From an outsider's perspective, it seemed illogical to step away. Though discontent, it's common for many to feel dissatisfied with their employment.

Burnout following workforce reductions

With recent headlines discussing quiet quitting and economic instability, including mass layoffs and rising expenses, I realized I should cherish having a job. As an educator in Organizational Learning, Performance, and Change, I knew it wasn't wise to resign without securing new employment to fill the résumé gap.

However, my role left me feeling drained and unfulfilled. When a significant layoff hit over a year ago, the organization lost many friends and peers, leaving an overwhelming amount of work for me alone. Compounded by unforeseen familial health issues, I needed to be more present at home.

I reached a point of exhaustion. My job no longer aligned with my core values, and I imagined escaping to another realm, on the luck-bringing dragon from The NeverEnding Story, or embarking on a lengthy European getaway.

Avoiding a Regret-Filled Life

Life's brevity often leads us into routines. While we anticipate retirement, it's often a distant reality for many. I refused to let regret consume my reflections on life.

So, I made the decision to leave. Sending that resignation felt like shedding a massive burden, providing immense relief.

My husband and I re-evaluated our budget and made necessary changes to revitalize myself, enhance family time, and explore future career paths.

Although tales of people abandoning their jobs to travel the globe intrigued me, my reality of managing a busy household with three energetic children, a spouse tied to a non-remote job, and elderly parents needing my support precluded such a lifestyle.

More Quality Time with My Children

Finding joy in work and experiences, I've busied myself writing a book, teaching on the side, earning an executive coaching certification, and engaging in speaking and consulting. I am reviving my business and enjoying the process.

My children and I embarked on cost-conscious adventures. Using the Every Kid Outdoors initiative, which offers free park access to 4th graders, we embarked on memorable visits.

We've spent time with family in California and ventured on excursions to Yellowstone, marveling at natural wonders like Old Faithful, learning about geothermal phenomena.

I encouraged my son to publish his debut children's book, "Tommy the Tap-Dancing T-Rex," inspiring my eldest to complete his writing, too.

My Workspace: The Heart of the Home

Although not matching my previous salary, I'm pursuing passions with vigor.

My new 'office' is our kitchen table. Humble as it may be, I cherish the ability to fetch my children from school and enjoy my dog's companionship during the day.

Although daunting, change can catalyze growth.

Balancing professional aspirations with personal life continues to challenge me, yet I strive to support my family while embracing roles as partner, parent, and daughter.

I am hopeful that resigning was prudent and am confident that the right prospects will come to fruition through persistence.

This life is our only chance. Embrace it fully. I'm reshaping my success criteria to encompass a rich life both in career and personal endeavors.

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