I promised to leave the US if Trump won in 2016. Here's how my life turned out.
Back in November 2016, I vowed that if Trump became president, I would relocate. Many others echoed this sentiment as Canada's immigration website saw so much traffic that it temporarily crashed.
I'm not sure how many followed through, but I did. Nine months after Trump's victory, I exited the United States.
In truth, Trump’s win wasn’t the main driver behind my departure. The real push came from my desire to escape my corporate role and see more of the world. Being 37, with no familial ties or pets, gave me the freedom to sell my house and embark on this journey.
Venturing into the Unknown
When I left, I had little in terms of a concrete plan. My aim was to leisurely traverse Asia, relying on teaching English for income when needed. This approach was a departure from my norm, but years of solo travel had readied me.
As time passed, I discovered that letting go can lead you to unforeseen people and paths.
After seven years outside the US, I’ve enjoyed a plethora of experiences, though not always smooth sailing. Initially, I lived on my savings, drifting slowly through Asia.
I began in India, attending a silent retreat and diving into yoga training. Visits to the Dalai Lama and educators enriched the journey. Once hooked on yoga, I traversed more of Asia, savoring vistas in Laos and mystical sites in Myanmar.
Navigating Financial Landscapes
Asia's affordability meant my savings lasted longer. While I opted for mid-range accommodations, friends found even cheaper lodging options. Meals rarely cost over $3.
Lost and Found
Periods of feeling adrift emerged occasionally, a natural part of such a shift. I've learned to trust the journey and know that clarity eventually surfaces.
Questions about my safety arose often, but I seldom felt fear, except during some intense road trips in India without guardrails.
A quieter life awaited me in a Myanmar village where I taught yoga. The simplicity brought joy, though I longed for deep connections and conversations that my travels sometimes lacked.
Finding Love on the Road
Moving to Siem Reap, Cambodia introduced me to vibrant urban life and new friendships. Eventually, while living there, I entered a long-distance relationship with a French traveler, now my partner.
COVID-19 tested our bond, but we reunited in France. Now, we're together in Papua New Guinea and planning future travels.
New Opportunities and Gratitude
My career has blossomed around my passions: leading retreats, writing, photography, and yoga. Looking back, I’m grateful for the decision to venture out. Though I miss the US often, technology helps bridge that gap.
America remains a cherished home, yet the vast world continuously beckons with its hidden secrets.




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