Leaving London for Barcelona: A Twice-Monthly Commute for the Dream

Twice every month, I journey from the vibrant streets of Barcelona back to the bustling city of London, starting my day with an early flight on Tuesday and returning home by Wednesday evening.

Although this routine might seem cumbersome, the trade-off is worthwhile. The privilege of waking up in the beautiful heart of Barcelona, instead of a monotone suburb in London, justifies the extra travel hours.

Falling for Barcelona's Charm

In 2013, during my university days, I spent a year in Barcelona studying the dynamics of economics and Spanish. The city captivated me; from its culinary delights to the cultural richness and sun-kissed beaches. Barcelona’s affordability, welcoming populace, and extraordinary climate lingered in my mind, marking it as a place I’d eagerly return to.

Post-graduation in 2014, I embarked on my professional journey in London but ensured annual visits back to my beloved city of Barcelona.

These frequent visits proved travel between the UK and Barcelona was not just possible but convenient, with flights being plentiful and surprisingly affordable—costing less than my monthly London railcard.

Deciding on Change Over Comfort

By the time I reached my 30s, my position as a director in a communications agency in the heart of Westminster seemed secure. Yet in 2024, faced with a future of ceaseless upgrades, rental hikes, and suburban monotony, I questioned if this was the life I really wanted.

With no plans of raising children, I wasn’t bound by conventional notions of stability. The drive for independence, apart from ties to family and my husband, was the crucial factor. Settling in a foreign country was, to me, the epitome of self-reliance and adventure.

So, in the summer of 2024, we made our move to Barcelona.

Choosing To Build Rather Than Join

Settling the question of career followed. My husband, a freelance stock trader, could work from virtually anywhere; unfortunately, my own company’s constraints made relocation impossible. The choice was clear: either integrate into the Spanish job market or establish my own enterprise.

Taking the plunge, I exited my role late in 2024 and established 'Born Advisory', a communication consultancy aimed at improving leaders' public interactions. The enterprise carries the name of El Born, the neighborhood I adore in Barcelona.

New Beginnings, New Opportunities

Securing a visa was a drawn-out, though straightforward, journey thanks to my marriage to a German national. This allowed me entry via a spousal visa, circumventing the need for elusive entrepreneurial permits.

When business calls me back to London, accommodation is either taken care of by staying with friends or through inexpensive lodging. These trips, though necessary, pale in comparison to the mental clarity and joy I find in my new life.

The fulfillment I derive from my work now stems from personal investment, beyond the financial rewards of previous employment.

By 2024, I questioned why delay when life is fleeting. Choosing to change ensured I didn't miss the chance for a refreshing new chapter in my life.

Taking charge of my destiny in such a profound manner has proven to be the most invigorating leap I've ever embraced.