Embracing Solo Life with Holiday Cards at 39

Since childhood, receiving holiday cards has been a cherished aspect of December for me. I delight in observing the family photos people choose to symbolize their year, coupled with small updates I miss on social media.

In my 20s, I envisioned sending my own festive greetings. However, societal norms made me believe I needed certain milestones, like marriage and children, to justify doing so.

The traditional holiday card felt like a celebration reserved for more conventional paths. Over time, I encountered stories of single, childless women who sent cards that humorously highlighted their status. Some posed with wine bottles and feigned dismay at their relationship status with witty remarks.

Annually, friends shared such articles with me, expecting relatability, but I didn't resonate with them. I never perceived my life as a joke, nor did I feel pity for my circumstances.

Crafting a Tradition of My Own

Thus, I established my own holiday card tradition to honor my rich, fulfilling life. Approaching 30, I embarked on numerous solo journeys, setting my sights on visiting all 63 major US national parks by 40.

While I shared some travels on social platforms, I wished for a more personal connection with family and friends, which inspired me to send my first holiday card. Featuring a photo from a summer in Canada, it depicted my backpack against Banff’s stunning mountains.

Initially, I felt hesitant to distribute these cards, concerned they might seem self-centered since they focused solely on me. Contrary to my worries, recipients expressed delight and appreciation, conveying excitement for receiving something so personal.

A Celebration of My Unique Journey

For nearly a decade, I've continued to send these cards throughout my 30s, each filled with cherished photos from my solo explorations. The anticipation among friends and family grows each year, with many eagerly confirming their place on my mailing list.

Sharing these intimate snapshots in a tactile form becomes a seasonal highlight, celebrating self-achievement and reinforcing my satisfaction with my chosen path. These cards serve as a testament to joy, meaningful connections, and embracing the life uniquely tailored to one’s own vision, irrespective of tradition.