Avoid These Blunders at Work Events: Insights from Etiquette Experts

Nobody aspires to be that colleague—the one everyone discusses after the office party. Work functions offer a fantastic opportunity to bond with coworkers and toast to shared professional achievements. Yet, a lapse in decorum can adversely impact your workplace image.

Business Insider consulted etiquette authorities to outline key errors to avoid at work-related gatherings. Here’s their guidance for ensuring you make a positive impression.

Neglecting Appropriate Attire

Pamela Eyring of The Protocol School of Washington, a leader in business etiquette education, warns against overly casual dressing at professional events. Avoiding nightclub wear and choosing something workplace-appropriate is crucial.

For those unsure, wearing attire comfortable enough for the office is a safe bet. Checking the event's invitation for a dress code can also be informative.

Ensure your guests are similarly informed about the event's dress expectations.

Assuming Colleagues' Holiday Preferences

During seasonal festivities, refrain from assumptions or specific holiday greetings without knowing what colleagues personally observe. Etiquette consultant Sheree Bryant Sekou advises opting for inclusive expressions such as ‘happy holidays.’

Bypassing Leadership Introductions

Avoiding high-level leaders like CEOs or senior executives at events is a missed opportunity, according to Eyring. Use such occasions to acknowledge and engage with them.

Unsure of what to say? Reference a recent accomplishment of theirs or express appreciation for the event.

Skipping Interactive Fun

Even if dancing or joining activities isn’t your preference, participating can reveal a more personable side to coworkers, says Eyring.

Preoccupied with Your Smartphone

Hiding behind your phone is a frequent misstep. Eyring notes that many feel nervous in these settings and retreat into their screens instead of interacting.

By doing so, you miss networking opportunities. While there are valid reasons for phone use, if sharing photos, be brief and put it away afterwards.

Taking Pictures Without Asking

Eyring stresses obtaining consent before photographing coworkers. People appreciate being asked before appearing in photos, particularly concerning social media postings.

Engaging in Sensitive Topics

Topics that might incite strong opinions—politics, money, religion—are best avoided at work events. Sekou advises sticking to lighter subjects like hobbies or travel.

Packing Leftovers Without Asking

Taking home excessive leftovers without permission can seem improper. Sekou recommends staying mindful of portions and the intention of socializing, not stocking up on food.

Lingering Too Long

While work events are excellent for deeper connections, overstaying can be awkward. Sekou highlights watching for social exit cues, such as changes in ambiance, to decide when to leave.