Embracing Solitude: Discovering Joy in Individual Adventures at 46

At 46 years old, I've started embarking on solo adventures, something new for me. In the past year, I've taken the leap to enjoy a drink at my local cocktail spot and watched a film unaccompanied.

Balancing life as a mom and stepmom to five and being married to my best friend, opportunities for alone time are rare. However, with changes approaching, I'm eager to explore more independent experiences.

After stepping away from a 25-year corporate career in 2023, I vowed to switch from being corporate-minded to an explorer of new encounters, seeking fresh experiences weekly. This shift has led me to projects like tap dancing, participating in the independent film 'Brilliant Blue,' and a solo escapade to Disneyland.

Two significant changes are nudging me to stretch beyond my usual habits: my youngest leaving for college and my husband's impending retirement. I've realized that my comfort zone largely exists at home.

My initial solo business trip at 25 laid the path for frequent international work travel, easing my comfort with solitude. Along the way, I've savored meals alone in cities like London and Dublin, ventured through cultural hubs such as Copenhagen and Munich, shopped in Paris and Shanghai, and even accidentally found myself at a cheese tasting in the Netherlands.

Disney Solo: A World of Adventures

Having visited Disney parks 22 times, I've experienced them in a multitude of ways. Yet, my inaugural solo visit in 2018 opened new dimensions of enjoyment. Being a solo guest brings perks like shorter lines for single riders and an abundance of lounges perfect for a solitary dining experience.

Disney isn't just for families; even when alone, you're surrounded by iconic characters ready to share a hug, making loneliness a non-issue.

Facing some logistical hurdles at Disneyland in 2023, such as reservation challenges for solo diners, I learned improvisation could lead to delightful experiences like exclusive tours and engaged interactions.

Sipping Solitude

In the past year, I've twice found myself enjoying a bar scene without companions: first, as a much-needed escape during the holidays with my husband ill, and secondly, at an early-day media event in Milwaukee. While I missed the shared experience of toasting with friends, the freedom to appreciate the decor and atmosphere in silence was refreshing.

Solo Cinematic Experiences

Watching the 'Eras Tour' on Disney+ left me wishing for the full cinema experience, leading to my decision to see 'Life of a Showgirl' by myself. I took joy in dressing for the occasion and using the time to prepare friendship bracelets, unburdened by the need for company.

I look forward to my next solo event—a Taylor Swift cover band concert—where I can fully embrace the excitement without dragging along someone else. The independence to pursue my own interests is something I now treasure deeply.