Richard Gere's Parenting Wisdom From the Dalai Lama

Richard Gere, at the age of 76, emphasizes a principle of kindness that he wishes his sons will always uphold. This piece of guidance, a cornerstone in his parenting philosophy, finds its roots in a conversation he had heard from years earlier involving the Dalai Lama.

During an interview with People, Gere recounted a story about a couple who approached the Dalai Lama while expecting a child. Filled with concerns about nurturing a child in today's world, they asked for advice.

The Dalai Lama, known for his profound simplicity, advised them to teach kindness, even towards insects. According to Gere, the Dalai Lama highlighted respecting even the smallest creatures as a way to extend compassion throughout one's life.

Gere, having practiced Buddhism since 1978, has a long-standing rapport with the 14th Dalai Lama, Tenzin Gyatso. He reflects deeply on how these teachings have shaped his own journey and parenting approach.

A Journey Into Spirituality

In a reflection on his spiritual journey, Gere shared with People that it began in his twenties, driven by existential musings. Questions about life's purpose and what gives it true value became pivotal for him.

This quest for understanding led him not only into the practice of Buddhism but also into producing "Wisdom of Happiness," a documentary showcasing the wisdom of the Dalai Lama, which made its debut at the Zurich Film Festival in October 2024.

A Memorable Encounter

Gere also reminisced about his first meeting with the Dalai Lama while he was in exile in the Himalayan foothills. He described the encounter as meeting someone incredibly genuine and without any facade, likening it to conversing with a trusted family member or a revered mentor.