8 Expert Tips for Being an Ideal Houseguest

Finding yourself as a guest in another's household is no excuse to set aside good manners. Whether for a brief visit or a prolonged holiday, maintaining decorum is essential. That’s why Business Insider consulted with two etiquette professionals for their insights on being an exemplary guest. Here's their guidance.

Keep Your Host Informed of Your Schedule

Pamela Eyring from The Protocol School of Washington emphasizes the foundational importance of communication. 'Make sure your arrival time is clearly communicated and notify your host promptly if there are any alterations to your schedule,' she advised. As your host likely has preparations underway for your visit, such clarity helps avert stress and underscores your appreciation for their efforts.

Express Thanks with a Host Gift

Bringing a token of thanks is always appreciated, according to Eyring. If unsure of personal preferences, a universally appealing gift like flowers, sweets, or a meal can be a thoughtful choice.

Maintain a Positive Atmosphere

Travel can be unpredictable. Sheree Bryant Sekou, an etiquette consultant, advises against arriving with negative energy as it can influence the entire visit. 'The tone you set at the start tends to influence the conclusion, so strive to stay upbeat and engaged,' she explained.

Bring Personal Comfort Items

Sekou suggests arriving with necessary toiletries and personal items to avoid burdening your host. Consider specifics like your preferred pillow or earplugs if you're a light sleeper, illustrating forethought and respect for your host’s hospitality.

Tidy Up Shared Spaces

Being respectful involves maintaining cleanliness in common areas, like the kitchen and bathroom. Sekou recommends ensuring dishes are clean, counters wiped, and bathrooms left spotless to reflect your appreciation.

Contribute to Meals or Grocery Costs

Offering to help with cooking or covering grocery expenses signifies gratitude and budget consideration for your host. Choose the option that best fits the situation and shows your respect for their generosity.

Prepare and Tidy Your Sleeping Area

Ensuring you make the bed each morning, regardless of where you slept, demonstrates respect. If needed, take a picture on arrival to replicate any complex arrangement.

Check for Your Belongings Before Departing

Sekou advises on carefully packing to avoid leaving items behind, which obligates the host to return them. This diligence further showcases your thoughtfulness as a guest.