My Journey: Three Biological Kids and Nine Surrogate Births – Time to Stop at 39

At 39 years old, I find myself pregnant with my ninth surrogate child, which adds to the three children I've given birth to as a mother myself. This journey has reached its natural conclusion.

My Surrogacy Journey

By February 2026, I will have welcomed into the world an equal number of six boys and six girls, with the latest addition being a girl.

Being a gestational carrier, I've successfully carried eight babies for other families, including twins on two occasions. Meanwhile, my own children, McKenna, 14, Jack, 12, and Charlie, 11, were naturally conceived with my husband.

Health and Safety in Multiple Pregnancies

Many are curious about the safety of having undergone numerous pregnancies. For me, mild symptoms have been a norm, with no severe complications arising—although my twin pregnancies were classified as high-risk.

Despite the potential challenges, such as gestational issues or placental complications, I've always managed to maintain my health by following medical advice, including a typical six-month rest period before any new embryo transfer, though exceptions have occurred.

Balancing Family Life

My husband, Max, has been a fantastic pillar of support, allowing me the freedom to focus on being a surrogate while maintaining our household.

Although it can be tempting to rest, especially during the latter stages of pregnancy, chores and family duties remain a priority for me.

The Motivation Behind My Surrogacy

People often wonder if I do this for the financial reward or out of empathy. It's primarily the latter, driven by the understanding of the joy a new life brings to families who need help.

The unique bond formed with intended parents adds a familial touch, turning strangers into lifelong connections.

Birth and Business Venture

The moment an intended parent first holds their child is an emotionally charged experience, akin to the joy of numerous celebrations all at once.

In 2022, I launched Carrying Dreams, my agency aimed at facilitating surrogacy with a personal touch, ensuring that both ethical and individual demands are balanced.

We guide surrogates in setting their rates, from new participants starting at $30,000 to experienced surrogates, who can earn up to $65,000.

While age has brought about increased fatigue, my passion for helping families remains unwavering. Nevertheless, this twelfth pregnancy seems like the perfect conclusion to my surrogacy chapter.